Want laughs, plus a way to tell a mother she’s loved? Take her to see Moms’ Night Out, opening Mother’s Day weekend.
When I visited this film’s set last year, actors and producers promised it would be a hoot. They’ve delivered, with loads of family fun. I laughed out loud.
Sarah Drew (Grey’s Anatomy), Sean Astin (The Lord of the Rings trilogy; Rudy) and Patricia Heaton (Everybody Loves Raymond; ABC’s comedy The Middle) highlight a cast portraying the chaos of parenting.
Heaton and husband David Hunt executive-produced. Says Hunt, “None of us [parents]would survive a minute without a sense of humor….” “Because if you don’t laugh, you will go crazy!” Heaton adds. “And then the kids know they’re winning.”
Dream life; dejected wife
Allyson (Drew) has her dream life – three adorable kids and a terrific husband, Sean (Astin) – but she’s not happy. Her own lofty self-expectations are shredding her.
Sean comes home one evening to find the house a mess and Allyson sitting on the closet floor watching her DVD player and eating, semi-catatonic from the day’s stresses. She needs a night out with her girlfriends.
Husbands will care for the kids while moms enjoy a dressy evening at a fancy restaurant. Sean implores Allyson to have fun: “Promise me that you’ll do whatever it takes to unplug and just breathe.” (Warning: Spoilers ahead.)
Unplugged and exploded
Everything goes wrong. Allyson unplugs…and explodes, triggering a wild night. A trendy restaurant ejects the mommy friends, who desperately search for a missing baby at a tattoo parlor, embark on a “don’t-try-this-at-home” car chase, and more.
Country singer Trace Adkins plays Bones, a tattoo artist with a checkered past who leads a biker gang that joins the baby search with volunteers from First Baptist Church, led by Sondra’s (Heaton) pastor spouse, Ray (Alex Kendrick, Courageous, Facing the Giants). Can you spell i-n-C-O-N-g-r-u-i-t-y?
Mouths wide open
Twists and goofs galore keep you laughing while characters drop morsels of family wisdom down your wide open mouth. Sondra advises Allyson on parenting’s craziness: “Life is…about finding the meaning and the joy and the purpose in…all the chaos and the crazy. It’s knowing that God is with you on the good days and the bad days. Does my faith give me that? Yes it does. Am I always happy? No, that’s a fantasy.”
In his Mother’s Day sermon, Ray cites a biblical Psalm: “‘Children are a blessing from the Lord.’ That’s why the position of mother is a high calling, and one that should be honored and protected.”
Bones on life
Even Bones contributes some pearls, remembered from his mother who throughout his youth reassured him of divine love. “I doubt the good Lord made a mistake giving your kiddos the mama he did,” Bones assures the despondent perfectionist Allyson. “So you just be you. He’ll take care of the rest.”
There’s much more to make you laugh and think. Watch for Sondra’s secret; cops’ consternation; Marco’s (Robert Amaya, “Snake King” from Courageous) obsessive/compulsive fears; and Sean citing a famous poem.
On set last year, Heaton promised “Every woman in America is going to wish that she was married to Sean Astin,” warning men in the assembled press corps, “You’re screwed!” After a year holding my breath – and now that she’s seen the film – I’m happy to report that my lovely wife Meg is still glad she married me, though she appreciates Sean’s wisdom and example.
A tip: don’t skip the credits at the end, or you’ll miss more fun. Moms’ Night Out is a Kevin Downes production of an Erwin Brothers film, shot on location in Birmingham, Alabama, and distributed by Sony Pictures/TriStar.
Rated PG (USA) “for mild thematic elements and some action”